Sara Foster isn’t sharing details about Tommy Haas’ breakup
Sara Foster is not ready to share the details of her separation from long-term love Tommy Haas.
Foster, 43, opened her Instagram DMs to a fan Q&A on Wednesday, September 24, and received a message about her divorce from a risqué follower.
“You owe your old listeners a discussion about your divorce,” the social media user wrote. Foster’s answer was telling.
“I don’t think I owe anyone anything to be honest,” she wrote back. “But I love you.”
People broke the news of Foster and Haas’ divorce last month. Neither has spoken publicly about the news yet. (We weekly requested comment.)
Foster and Haas, 46, were together for 19 years and welcomed two daughters, Valentina, 13, and Josephine, 8, during their relationship. While it’s unclear what went wrong between them, Foster made it clear that reconciliation would never be an option.
“Is it ever okay to contact an ex? He had trust and abandonment issues,” a second fan wrote to Foster on Tuesday.
“Getting back with an ex is never a good idea,” she replied. “Normally a total waste of time.”
Foster and Haas met in the mid-2000s and started dating. He visited her Instagram page over the years – until recently. Haas’ last appearance on Foster’s social media was last February, months before the split news broke.
During a 2023 interview, Foster said she and Haas were “basically married” despite never taking their vows.
“We’ve been together since I was 25 years old,” she said on the “We Met at Acme” podcast. “We have two children. Our lives are completely intertwined and together.”
Foster and Haas were engaged “early on” in their relationship, but continued to put the marriage “on the back burner” before the idea died down. “Now it’s gotten to the point where we don’t even talk about it anymore,” she added.
Foster also reflected on her past during the podcast episode – seemingly referencing her father David Foster‘s five marriages – as the reasons she didn’t want to walk down the aisle.
“I didn’t grow up respecting marriage because I grew up thinking it didn’t mean anything,” she said. “You just walk away, you cheat, you go to this person, you go to that person. We just didn’t grow up with the foundation of marriage as a union of bliss and a holy matrimony forever, and we just didn’t do that.”